Business Lessons I Learned From Going Shopping With My Girls

Normally over on my website, blog and regular monthly newsletter I dispense highly-intelligent small business advice in response to thought provoking questions submitted by future and fellow entrepreneurs. This time, however, I have a couple of questions for myself, one of which makes me wonder how truly intelligent I really am.


Dear Me, I recently took my teenage daughters shopping at the shopping center. The experience raised two questions. (1) What business lessons might be learned from such a foray into teen commerce; and (2) What the heck was I thinking? — Sincerely, Me.


Dear Me, great questions! Let me answer them in reverse order since the second question is probably the one causing you the most concern.

What was I thinking? Only the good Lord knows. I vaguely recall complaining that my fifteen and seventeen year-old daughters, who we’ll call “Abigail and Simone” (because that’s their name), didn’t spend enough time with their dear mother anymore. It’s a complaint that every mother of teenage girls formerly known as “my babies” has made at one time or another. I also recall my insightful husband telling me that if I wanted to spend time with my girls now, that they were teenagers I would have to do it in their element, which happens to be any large structure with the word “Clothes Shop” on the side.

A fitting analogy would be that if you want to spend time with a moody tiger you have to go into the jungle to do it.

No offense to my shop merchant brothers and sisters, but a trip into the deepest jungle with my teenage girls on heat to spend, spend, spend during the holidays is not so appealing when you know you’ve got the raw end of the deal. I get no joy out of trudging from store to store, attempting to communicate with salespeople from other planets, browsing discount racks of last season’s pound merchandise and peering into windows at mannequins that seem to be in some sort of inanimate pain (why can’t they make a happy mannequin?).

Bottom line: I’m a busy woman and it’s programmed deep within my genetic code to hold such things in high disregard. But so strong is my love for my daughters that I pushed my true feelings aside and off we went holiday shopping last Saturday morning. I called it, “Driving the green mile…”

I was perfectly fine walking through Next (a real woman’s store). I held my own when we cruised through Marks & Spencer’s Gifts (I found the funny bobble-head doll to be quite life-like).

But when we walked into one of those stores that specialise in clothing and accessories for the younger generation my psyche all but shutdown. Within minutes I found myself standing at the back of the store holding my daughter’s purses while they tried on small swatches of material that the store was trying to pass off as clothing. It was there, standing among the mopey mannequins and teeny-tiny underwear and designer nose rings, that I realized I was witnessing good old British commerce at work.

This leads us back to the first question: are there business lessons to be learned from a trip to the shopping centers? As the young folks would say, “Bro, definitely!

The following observations can be applied to most businesses, not just to retailers that cater to Generation Why.

Know Thy Customer Well

Not just from a demographic standpoint, but up close and personal. Even from my limited vantage point behind the rack of neon tube tops it was easy to identify the store’s typical customer: young, hip females; ages mid-teens to mid-twenties. They wandered through in groups of twos and threes. I suppose that going to the restroom in public and shopping are the two things females must do in groups.

It makes perfect sense when you realise that for teenage girls (and many grown women, I’ve been told) shopping is a social activity, an excursion to be taken with friends.


The smart retailers know this and design their stores to be as much a social hot spot as a retail establishment. From the hip/cool music blaring from the overhead speakers to the hip/cool young sales dudes to the hip/cool posters on the walls to the hip/cool selection of merchandise, this store was a teenage girl’s retail heaven on earth.

Target Your Product To A Growing Customer Base.

Teens represent one of the fastest-growing segments of the consumer population, registering a growth of 16.6% between 1990 and 2006. Teens also wield significant buying power – both in their own right and in the context of their family purchasing decisions. Recent studies have shown that teenagers age 15 to 19 spend as much as £100 per week, I can vouch for that, much of it on clothing and accessories.

That’s why this expanding segment of the buying public is increasingly being targeted by smart marketers like Old Navy, Gap, Top Shop, H&M, and many others. As the old business saw goes, “Sniff for money, then follow your nose.”


Provide Great Customer Service

I’ve preached this sermon before. Know what your customer expects and always overdeliver. Cater to their whims. Ask their name and use it with respect. Make them feel like your friend, not your meal ticket. Make their

experience a good one and they will return.

Good Employees Make All The Difference

Hire enthusiastic people and train them well. The manager of this store, who looked sixteen but privately professed to be twenty-six, was one of the best salesmen I have ever seen. He dressed like his customers. He spoke their language. He knew their likes and dislikes. He was well-versed on fashion trends. He pointed out things that might be of interest to them and immediately agreed with whatever their opinion was.

“You’d look great in this shirt,” he told a giggling gaggle of girls. It didn’t seem to matter that he wasn’t speaking to any one of them in particular. They all giggled some more and trotted off to the fitting rooms to try on shirts. You could almost hear the cash register ring.

Upsell, Upsell, Upsell

Millions of pounds have been made by asking one simple question: “Do you want fries with that?” When it came time to checkout the young manager went into upsell mode by saying things like, “That’s a great shirt you’re buying… we have a really cool pair of jeans to match that!

These earrings are on sale. They would look awesome with that necklace you’re wearing!”

My daughters giggled and blushed with each compliment – slash – sales pitch and if I had not been the one holding the credit card, they would have bought everything he was selling. During the ride home Abigail made the defining comment of the day.

“What a great store! I bet they sell a lot more stuff because of that cute sales guy!”

Hmm! Business wisdom from the mouths of babes…


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  1. This post made me laugh out so loud. I love the way you manage to provide wonderful information and advice on business yet still relateable and down to earth. Will be coming back for more kip up the great work.

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